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Everybody Can’t Come – What’s Your Mindset for the Next Level?

Kay Blair
3 min readNov 18, 2024

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How a Boss-Up Mentality Can Redefine Your Future

Do you ever feel like you’re running a race with no finish line? Like no matter how hard you hustle, the dream life you imagine always feels just out of reach? Trust me, I’ve been there. I had no choice but to boss up and create my own lane. I couldn’t rely on my parents or anyone else to hand me a trust-funded fairy tale. It was either sink or swim – and I chose to swim.

Sometimes life forces you to face the raw truth: everybody can’t come with you to the next level. Not even the old version of yourself. I had to let go of outdated habits, toxic relationships, and the comforting but stagnant routine that kept me stuck. It’s like Nipsey Hussle said, “Circle got smaller, everybody can’t go.” And that hits differently when you’re serious about leveling up.

The truth is, creating your own lane isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes grit, discipline, and a relentless belief in your vision, even when it feels like nobody else sees it. I started asking myself, “What if I gave everything I had to this dream? What if I stopped worrying about who wasn’t supporting me and focused…

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Kay Blair
Kay Blair

Written by Kay Blair

I write about Music, Culture, and Experiences.

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